The community of Upper Saddle River and beyond is grieving the loss of Craig Parrella, a cherished retired Upper Saddle River Police Officer and U.S. Marine, who passed away on December 24, 2024. His sudden death has left a profound emptiness in the hearts of his family, friends, and colleagues who admired him for his unwavering dedication, warm heart, and steadfast support.
Craig was not just a police officer and military veteran; he was a protector, a source of joy, and a constant presence in the lives of those fortunate enough to know him. His passing on Christmas Eve marked the end of an era, leaving behind a legacy of service, love, and countless memories that will live on in the hearts of his loved ones forever. Born and raised in New Jersey, Craig’s life was one rooted in service and a profound sense of duty.
He served his country as a United States Marine, a commitment that would lay the foundation for the rest of his life. After his military service, Craig continued his dedication to public service by joining the Upper Saddle River Police Department, where he would serve with distinction for nearly three decades. Craig’s time as a police officer was marked by both professionalism and compassion, a balance that earned him the respect and admiration of his colleagues and the community.
Rising through the ranks, Craig became a Sergeant in 2016, a role that reflected his exceptional leadership and commitment to law enforcement. His duties also included being a firearms instructor and a field training officer, where he played a pivotal role in shaping the future of the department by mentoring younger officers and sharing his vast knowledge. Outside of his professional life, Craig was known for his fierce loyalty and commitment to those he loved.
He was not only a protector of the community but also a devoted family member and friend. In every aspect of his life, Craig exemplified what it meant to be reliable, selfless, and genuinely caring. Whether it was supporting his friends during difficult times or helping his family with home repairs and projects, Craig was always there, lending a hand, offering guidance, or simply being a source of comfort.
His best friend shared a touching tribute to Craig, recounting how he was always there during the darkest times, whether it was organizing a perfect military sendoff for a fallen friend or providing much-needed support during personal struggles. His best friend wrote, “Thank you for being there for my girls for every step in our life after Thomas passed. You were a fierce Uncle, so protective over my girls. No matter how crazy the task was, from a remodel where you almost got electrocuted to helping put up a ceiling fan, building decks, and always standing by my family through thick and thin, you were there. Your support during my battle with cancer was unwavering.
No words could ever thank you enough.” Craig’s kindness extended beyond simple gestures. He was the person who brought laughter and joy wherever he went. A natural performer, Craig had a deep love for music and often showcased his musical talents through guitar performances at social gatherings. He was known for his sense of humor, quick wit, and ability to bring a smile to anyone’s face. His annual New Year’s Eve parties were legendary, full of energy, music, and laughter.
His friends remember him fondly for his unique ability to connect with others through music, making each moment spent with him a celebration of life. His passion for guitar and music was a defining aspect of his personality and served as a way for him to share joy and creativity with those around him. Despite the many accolades and achievements in Craig’s life, it was his ability to bring people together and support them through challenges that truly defined his legacy.
He was a man who not only excelled in his career but also took the time to care for others. His devotion to his family, friends, and the community extended far beyond the call of duty, and his presence will be missed in every corner of his life. Craig’s funeral service is scheduled for Saturday, December 28, 2024, from 2:00 PM to 6:00 PM at the G. Thomas Gentile Funeral Home, located at 397 Union Ave in Hackensack, NJ.
Those wishing to attend the memorial service are invited to join in remembering Craig’s remarkable life, which was filled with service, compassion, and an infectious zest for life. A schedule of events for the service will be shared, including a military sendoff and a bagpipe tribute in honor of Craig’s service as a U.S. Marine. His family has requested that those attending the service wear something that reflects the joy and light Craig brought to their lives.
The eulogies will be an opportunity for friends, family, and colleagues to share their memories of Craig, paying tribute to the man who made a lasting impact on so many lives. Craig’s loss is deeply felt by his extended family, friends, and colleagues, who all remember him as someone who made a difference in their lives, whether through a simple gesture of kindness, a deep conversation, or a shared laugh.
His family described him as a protector, a provider, and a beacon of light in their lives. His absence leaves a void that will be difficult to fill, but the legacy of his love, laughter, and service will continue to inspire all who knew him. As we gather to say our final farewell to Craig Parrella, we remember the man who lived his life with purpose, kindness, and an unrelenting commitment to others.
His spirit will live on in the memories of those who loved him, and his legacy of service, friendship, and family will continue to inspire those who were fortunate enough to know him. As the community comes together to mourn his passing, it is also a time to reflect on the profound impact Craig had on each of their lives. Though he may no longer be physically with us, his influence will continue to shape the lives of his loved ones, and his memory will forever be cherished by all who knew him. Rest in peace, Craig Parrella. Your service, love, and laughter will never be forgotten.
